I'd like to thank a blond Texan that shall remain nameless for the acquisition of the titles phrase. It basically means "say what?" or in Brooklynese "What the fuck did you just say?" lol Yeah, something like that. I had to come on here to reiterate a principal I live by when I am in a relationship. It's quite simple: Be a gentleman when most appropriated...
There are many ways a man can be a gentleman but for our purposes, we'll discuss the the use of discretion. To not use discretion is more fool-hearty than it is a stoning offense. Especially when it comes to his woman. My mother, my father and life itself has shown me the reason why discretion is so very important. They always made it clear that any man that would put out his sexual business in public is not simply demeaning himself, but more so the woman he is with because it presents her as a sexual object left to the imagination of the reader or the listener. I am not passing judgement on anyone. Being the way I am and who I am, I find it disrespectful and foolish. Here are just two examples out of many I can cite...
First example: I was a young man at a friends house. My friends brother was apparently dating a freak. He had a picture of this woman in his wallet in the nude...vaginal lips spread open by her fingertips. He thought it cool, we thought it disgusting but the image remained ingrained in our minds to this very day. It wasn't even properly taken. Anyway, he decides to get serious with her, marries her, has children with her but seemed to forget that he had shown his brother and I a picture of his current soulmate in the nude...spread eagle. Awkward? You have no fucking idea!!!
Second example: I know this guy that was dating a young lady that thought it ok to strongly imply he had a large penis by way of using the phrase "You have noooooooo problem in that department" on Facebook. As one would imagine the "ooo"s took the place of inches. Long story short, her friends were not very respectful to their relationship when they all finally met as they thought it ok to be quite handsy and flirtatious to a high level of discomfort. She blamed him...huh?
Now, I have seen two current incidents that really bothered me. Why these in particular? One, because I care about the women involved and two, because I can't say shit given the fact that neither they nor their friends said anything about it as it happened either. This leads me to believe they either think it's ok or the men got a "talkin to" later. I hope it's the latter but given the climate of the times, I'm just not sure. I can't say anything to them but I can vent about it here. Gentleman, give your woman and your relationship the respect they deserve. Boys, learn to be gentlemen. Being a gentleman does mean that you are a pussy. It just means that you can show manners and decorum when and where it is needed. As for these two women, I know them and I know they deserve way more respect than that. Especially on fuckin social media that is accessible to anyone and everyone...including children. So please stay aware folks...I'm out
~Moses
There are many ways a man can be a gentleman but for our purposes, we'll discuss the the use of discretion. To not use discretion is more fool-hearty than it is a stoning offense. Especially when it comes to his woman. My mother, my father and life itself has shown me the reason why discretion is so very important. They always made it clear that any man that would put out his sexual business in public is not simply demeaning himself, but more so the woman he is with because it presents her as a sexual object left to the imagination of the reader or the listener. I am not passing judgement on anyone. Being the way I am and who I am, I find it disrespectful and foolish. Here are just two examples out of many I can cite...
First example: I was a young man at a friends house. My friends brother was apparently dating a freak. He had a picture of this woman in his wallet in the nude...vaginal lips spread open by her fingertips. He thought it cool, we thought it disgusting but the image remained ingrained in our minds to this very day. It wasn't even properly taken. Anyway, he decides to get serious with her, marries her, has children with her but seemed to forget that he had shown his brother and I a picture of his current soulmate in the nude...spread eagle. Awkward? You have no fucking idea!!!
Second example: I know this guy that was dating a young lady that thought it ok to strongly imply he had a large penis by way of using the phrase "You have noooooooo problem in that department" on Facebook. As one would imagine the "ooo"s took the place of inches. Long story short, her friends were not very respectful to their relationship when they all finally met as they thought it ok to be quite handsy and flirtatious to a high level of discomfort. She blamed him...huh?
Now, I have seen two current incidents that really bothered me. Why these in particular? One, because I care about the women involved and two, because I can't say shit given the fact that neither they nor their friends said anything about it as it happened either. This leads me to believe they either think it's ok or the men got a "talkin to" later. I hope it's the latter but given the climate of the times, I'm just not sure. I can't say anything to them but I can vent about it here. Gentleman, give your woman and your relationship the respect they deserve. Boys, learn to be gentlemen. Being a gentleman does mean that you are a pussy. It just means that you can show manners and decorum when and where it is needed. As for these two women, I know them and I know they deserve way more respect than that. Especially on fuckin social media that is accessible to anyone and everyone...including children. So please stay aware folks...I'm out
~Moses
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