Who's the hardest?..."
To my male friends, family and readers: If you come to me asking about "how to" court a woman and you see it as too "simple" to "work" for you, do me a favor...check out YouTube. I'm sure you can find a video entitled "5 Steps To Make Her Want You" just as as easy as you would anything else. Men...that ain't me. Take some time and go through this blog. You'll see it is a testimony that I'm sincere and consistent when I say "be yourself". No tricks, no pretense, no agendas...no games. Put the best of your real foot forward and let it do what it do. If you have any value to offer one you find value in...then it will happen whether you want it to or not. Now, you can bag chicken-heads all day with your "how-to" lessons but women of quality require quality and that is something you can only fake for so long. And what is quality? You think it's a beautiful face? Nice tits and ass? How about "independent" and "well to do" maybe? Nah...those things are nice and all but true quality is far from those things. True quality is usually hidden under scars, heartache and forced smiles. It's surface is strength but it's a strength undergirded by a guarded heart that still has hope, faith, love and passion. Something you can't just use and abuse. Requiring your passion to breathe oxygen into it's lungs. However faint..."beautiful" was preserved in the face of a lot of trial and pain and THAT is the testimony of a heart that knows what is most important in life. If you are a man of quality, you'll pick it up right away but if you're on your way there, you'll take the time to mine her heart to find it. Not because you want to take something from her but because you are interested to know her...for her. Cheesy as hell but true none the less.
So if you ever ask me for advice, I will begin by asking you to tell me all about her and your time together. If it begins and ends on surface levels that include but are not limited to how thick her ass looks in jeans...then I ain't the one you need to be talkin to. I can speak on surface levels but I choose not to if that's all you're gonna want. It's like asking a chef of fine cuisine how to eat a Big Mac. That ain't bragging...I just know my strengths. All the women I've come to love are women of quality. Extremely desirous women that had no "need" for a man (whether they knew it or not) saw something worth loving in me. I've been blessed...and still am.
My brothers...if I ever told you to "be yourself" it was only because I saw in the natural "you" an undeniable charm or character trait that I knew women would find endearing but it will never work for you unless you see it for yourself. You don't need a 4 or 5 step plan. Nor do you need to play act "the nice guy" or "the bad boy" when you already know who you are. Don't ever get to the place you have to fake being someone else to entice anyone. God forbid you should walk into a commitment (heavy or light) wearing a mask. At some point...it's comin off. What you're left with after that is never good...for anybody. I'm out...
~moses apollo
PS: Mentally, physically and emotionally...I'm so very tired. Maybe I should care a bit more about that...but I don't...
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