Ok so here's a revelation lol
Turns out I inadvertently upset someone close to me awhile ago & I will say it's for the dumbest of reasons. Turns out they signaled something to me trying to remain incognito to others in the room so it wasn't so pronounced. They said I signaled back that I got it but never followed through. I supposedly then acted like it never happened!! It wasn't that important so they let it go but it always stuck with them. They thought I had an issue with them!! lol
Well, I was able to explain it. It's a bit embarrassing to me (and it shouldn't be) but I am hard of hearing in my left ear and see less from my right eye. So I don't always catch those directed subtleties unless I'm really paying attention. Now, I usually am but in this case and a few others, when things are busy and a lot is goin on, I may miss it but I tend to pretend I "got it" to move things along. I'll see a nod and nod back or gesture something generic. THAT'S where I mess up lol This person was really upset but glad they were able to clear it up. Dammit me too!! I'd never dismiss anyone like that on purpose unless it was from an asshole sayin something stupid!! I remember having to get corrective lenses and almost having to get a hearing aid for my Coast Guard credentials (only because their standards for my duties were high) but thankfully I just slid by on that one. Now I'm only wondering who else that happened with and they ain't sayin nothin... OMG!! I would so kick myself if I missed out on something interesting because of this lol
Anyway, if someone reads this and this happened with you... this is the reason why. I did not purposely dismiss you!! It's stupid but it is what it is & I apologize. THAT... was wild lol
~moses
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