Once gain!!! I'm having to say this more and more and part of me hates it... "I sometimes hate being right"
Folks I am no way perfect but I can say something with a certainty: "I've not been nor ever will be f*cked up". I will never be the kind of person that sees evil as good or that finds manipulative control over another human being something to work towards. I have my own issues one can criticize but I guarantee you that what grief I may cause will never be intentional or due to selfishness. My "good" will always outrun my "bad" by miles and that... is by design. Pretenders are getting exposed for what they are and I'm sittin back watchin this whole thing happen. Things I've written and warned about are now openly hurting more folks I've come to care over and there is absolutely nothing to do about it. I can only watch, shake my head and do my best to be there for them. These hearts are like my own. They only lack my experience and ability to grasp the lessons as fast but they are in no way weaker than me. These are the ones getting hurt and disillusioned & it honestly feels like a concerted effort to break down the heart that beats in real-time. The hearts that have the ability to see things as they are as these hearts are free and the free heart... cannot be easily controlled.
In a nutshell, what I'm saying to you is this: DO NOT look to your list. I don't care who told you that you were worth this or that. If any man or woman is gonna meet ANY of your "must-haves", it must be from a sincere heart or the fulfillment of such things is just window dressing meant to hide the sh*t on the screen they never got around to cleaning. Meeting your "demands" can be easily faked for the sake of ass. Look to CHARACTER first... even before love. You can be in love all you want but I've said it before and I'll say it again: "Love may be blind but it doesn't have to be stupid". To be hit with love before vetting character happens but it's up to you to step back & use the brain God gave you. Vett their character and if it ain't up to your standards... move the f*ck on. On one side, you have the "women" that believe they deserve it all simply because they are woman and because men supposedly need them. In turn making demands that are laughable. On the other, are the "red-pilled" men answering that nonsense with their own brand of extreme nonsense that is just as manipulative and small. Both seeking partners that will never put them through the slightest discomfort. Discomfort, two mature individuals would typically work through... creating a stronger bond in the process.
People need to be human beings again to be able to find that connection that's been lost. As opposed to seeking out algorithms that work, I suggest taking the time getting to know each first before looking at how this person works into your idea of a committed relationship. I never got around to conforming to this and I never will. In fact I run from it like the plague... but that's just me. I'm out...
~moses apollo
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