Is too proud to admit he loves his wife. He cannot say the words after being hurt by her but they are still true. Yet he doesn't know how to manifest such a thing in the midst of hurt. He doesn't want to be fooled. He doesn't want to be punked as a man. Yet with understanding her humanity, he can find the point to start from scratch. He can find reasons to excuse her behavior since it was all based on human frailty within her personal framework. He can make it work with a change of perspective.
This will happen at every beginning. Doubts creep in because time hasn't given you the luxury of knowledge. So you make mistakes along the way. You fail and get failed on. Creeping takes place and it's all because of the newness of the thing...something that could be overcome. Yet exhaustion sets in if you realize you've done all you can and your partner will not budge. THIS is when you walk away. THIS is when you decide that putting aside hurt is not worth it. This is when you say goodbye.
If there is love, do all you can to make it work but if disappointment has exhausted that love...move forward.. Let it go...
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