You know I tend to talk a lot about value simply because I know what it's like to be a person of value. Not in a big headed way but in ways developed through sincere introspection. So long as there is something noble inside you that has the ability to move someone else...you my friend have value. When I talk about relationships I always advise the partners to find and acknowledge each other's value because THAT is one of the major ways one keeps from straying...you know what you have in the one you're with. Something that is unique to them that moves your soul. Something you can never find in anyone else. Something that makes you sigh a sigh of relief every time you think on that trait...or when you see many without it. You ask yourself the question..."what is my woman worth?" If your answer is "priceless" then you need not go anywhere else. Settle in and build that relationship as though you are building a home about to hit every kind of weather imaginable. Build it with thoughts of longevity and stability in mind. If you are always doubting it's value or security then you will just go through the motions until your self fulfilling prophecy of separation comes to pass. You can pinpoint that one because the one that doubted always had an escape plan at the ready. They go on as though you never existed and pick up from the day before you guys got serious...f**ked up but true. That's when you realize that you were nothing special in their eyes. They expected an end so they never closed doors or severed ties they had while uncomitted..."just in case". No people, if the person you are with has value, dont just let them know but show them. Let them feel it in your touch, let them hear in your voice and let them hear about it from friends they told in private. Decisions made that can never be unmade are the true markers of proof they know what they have in you. If you see that you know they are in it FOR you...that is a keeper. That is one you don't mess with. That is one you treat as though they are deserving of all you have to offer...value.
Now as the man that I am I find heavy value in the strong woman. The woman that doesn't easily say "yes". The one that says "sorry but I don't know you like that to be giving out my number". The one that catches the bullshit and lets it be known that she sees it. The one that is willing to stay alone because she knows what she is worth and will never capitulate for the sake of loneliness. You see to most men this woman is "work". This is a tough nut that will not put out that quickly. That will only show interest when she sees something of value herself in the man first. To this woman attention is fleeting and annoying...a waste of her time because its obvious to her, given her judgement of her surroundings and motives, that this one and that one is only interested in one thing. She has VALUE enough in herself to know that cheap and easy will never do. She is tough to most but to me and other real men...she is one to pursue. Why you might ask? Well consider this...if you see this woman was tough to reach by you then you know her loyalty will never be in question. Her choices carry more weight and you see that she chose you among the scores she has said no to. You were not just another number in a series. Not just another interest that strokes her ego. A man sees that and sees the mother of his children. The wife he can love freely because he knows she is FOR him. Women like this will bleed for you. Women like this are priceless. Find one like this and get ready to be treated like a f**king king...and be ready to get on YOUR knees for HER ;-)
Now the one that says yes to every advance and smiles at just a glance is always targeted by the boys for temporary fun. They think they are playing the game but all the while they are getting played themselves. Erroneously thinking that in giving up their power (attention, interest and vagina lol) they have placed a hold on the man they just snagged lol Ladies, ladies!!! The fact is that once you have given them what they were looking for, you serve no purpose to them anymore but for the next round of "a few seconds of fun"...ugh. You have no opinion, you have no heart nor do you have interests that he cares about. You are just a "cum depository" and that's all you will ever be to them. If they leave because you are "holding out" then let them leave because that means they were only after one thing...you dont need them. Wake up ladies to this please. Learn how to value what you ARE because if all you value is what you HAVE (between your legs and otherwise) then that's what you'll attract in men and all the men looking for substance will pass you by or leave when they finally figure out you were faking your own sense of value. Saying "NO" attracts the real man...saying "YES" all the time attracts the ones looking for a piece of free ass and by word of mouth (from someone you thought you could trust)...attracts his buddies as well...hmmm.
People, please know what you are worth and seek out those willing to appreciate it. Seek out those willing to show you that appreciation without restraint. Anything less should never do for a person of true value...
Now as the man that I am I find heavy value in the strong woman. The woman that doesn't easily say "yes". The one that says "sorry but I don't know you like that to be giving out my number". The one that catches the bullshit and lets it be known that she sees it. The one that is willing to stay alone because she knows what she is worth and will never capitulate for the sake of loneliness. You see to most men this woman is "work". This is a tough nut that will not put out that quickly. That will only show interest when she sees something of value herself in the man first. To this woman attention is fleeting and annoying...a waste of her time because its obvious to her, given her judgement of her surroundings and motives, that this one and that one is only interested in one thing. She has VALUE enough in herself to know that cheap and easy will never do. She is tough to most but to me and other real men...she is one to pursue. Why you might ask? Well consider this...if you see this woman was tough to reach by you then you know her loyalty will never be in question. Her choices carry more weight and you see that she chose you among the scores she has said no to. You were not just another number in a series. Not just another interest that strokes her ego. A man sees that and sees the mother of his children. The wife he can love freely because he knows she is FOR him. Women like this will bleed for you. Women like this are priceless. Find one like this and get ready to be treated like a f**king king...and be ready to get on YOUR knees for HER ;-)
Now the one that says yes to every advance and smiles at just a glance is always targeted by the boys for temporary fun. They think they are playing the game but all the while they are getting played themselves. Erroneously thinking that in giving up their power (attention, interest and vagina lol) they have placed a hold on the man they just snagged lol Ladies, ladies!!! The fact is that once you have given them what they were looking for, you serve no purpose to them anymore but for the next round of "a few seconds of fun"...ugh. You have no opinion, you have no heart nor do you have interests that he cares about. You are just a "cum depository" and that's all you will ever be to them. If they leave because you are "holding out" then let them leave because that means they were only after one thing...you dont need them. Wake up ladies to this please. Learn how to value what you ARE because if all you value is what you HAVE (between your legs and otherwise) then that's what you'll attract in men and all the men looking for substance will pass you by or leave when they finally figure out you were faking your own sense of value. Saying "NO" attracts the real man...saying "YES" all the time attracts the ones looking for a piece of free ass and by word of mouth (from someone you thought you could trust)...attracts his buddies as well...hmmm.
People, please know what you are worth and seek out those willing to appreciate it. Seek out those willing to show you that appreciation without restraint. Anything less should never do for a person of true value...
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